Catastrophic events

Surviving a serious accident

Being involved in a serious car accident, workplace accident, or other unintentional event that caused significant physical harm or put your life at risk. Including accidents where others were hurt or killed and you survived.

A serious accident happens in seconds and unspools for years, through recovery, flashbacks, and a new distrust of ordinary activities that used to be automatic. If others were hurt or killed, the weight compounds. Whatever the police report said, your body wrote its own account, and that account is the one that needs tending.

What can follow an experience like this

No two people carry the same experience the same way. These are some of the effects that people with this experience often describe. Having some of them, all of them, or none of them says nothing about how real what happened to you was.

PTSD After certain experiences, the brain can get stuck, replaying what happened through flashbacks, nightmares, or sudden intense reactions to things that remind you of it. Chronic pain Pain that has been investigated and treated and remains. Hypervigilance The nervous system that learned to scan for danger all the time. Insomnia Difficulty falling asleep. Depression Not just sadness. Startle response The nervous system calibrated to danger will flinch at sounds, movements, or surprises that others barely notice. Anxiety The background hum of dread that is always there. Exhaustion This is not tiredness.

Nothing on this page is a diagnosis, and nothing here decides what is wrong with you, because nothing is wrong with you. Something happened to you. This page exists so that when you are ready, you can find people who understand it from the inside.

You do not have to carry this alone.

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