Loss and grief

Losing a pregnancy or experiencing infertility

Miscarriage, stillbirth, failed fertility treatments, or the grief of not being able to have children you wanted. Losses that are often invisible to others and met with inadequate responses. Grief that had no funeral and no formal acknowledgment.

If some version of this is part of your story, you already know that the hardest part is rarely the memory itself. It is carrying it in a world that mostly does not want to hear about it. This fellowship exists so you do not have to carry it alone, and so you never have to explain it to someone who has no idea what it means.

What can follow an experience like this

No two people carry the same experience the same way. These are some of the effects that people with this experience often describe. Having some of them, all of them, or none of them says nothing about how real what happened to you was.

Chronic pain no one can fully explain Pain that has been investigated and treated and remains. Insomnia or feeling unsafe enough to sleep Difficulty falling asleep. Shame or feeling like something is broken in you Not guilt about something you did. Anxiety and constant worry The background hum of dread that is always there. Not knowing who you are, or experiencing multiple parts or identities A self that shifts depending on who you are with. Grief that is stuck and will not let you move Grief that did not follow the expected path. Trouble letting people in emotionally The wall that goes up when someone tries to get close. Struggling to make sense of what happened to you The questions that will not resolve.

Nothing on this page is a diagnosis, and nothing here decides what is wrong with you, because nothing is wrong with you. Something happened to you. This page exists so that when you are ready, you can find people who understand it from the inside.

You do not have to carry this alone.

Bridge of Hope Recovery is a free, anonymous, peer-led fellowship for trauma survivors. Meetings run throughout the week by phone, by video, and in person. No cost, no waitlist, no one asking for your real name.

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