An effect of trauma
Flop response
Beyond freeze there is flop. Complete collapse of the system under extreme and inescapable threat. Going limp. Losing awareness. The body and mind shutting down entirely when fighting, fleeing, freezing, and appeasing have all failed or are not available. This is the deepest survival response, the last resort of a nervous system that has run out of options. It is most common in experiences of extreme violence, sexual assault, or situations of complete inescapability. If this happened to you it does not mean you gave up. It means your body did everything it could.
Complete collapse is the body's final protection, deployed only when everything else had failed or was never available. If this happened to you, it is evidence of how extreme the situation was, never of how weak you were. Your body did the last thing it could do to carry you through. It succeeded. You are here.
It can sound like
If any of those sentences live in your head too, you are in good company here.
Nothing on this page is a diagnosis, and nothing here decides what is wrong with you, because nothing is wrong with you. Something happened to you. This page exists so that when you are ready, you can find people who understand it from the inside.
You do not have to carry this alone.
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